As the leaves change and Starbucks pumpkin spice drinks warm our hands, a certain argument always comes up: Is it okay to deck the halls before we’ve even carved the Thanksgiving turkey?
Those who eagerly string up lights and blast Mariah Carey’s “All I Want for Christmas Is You” in early November (including myself) argue that the holiday season is far too short. They just love Christmas and want to bring more joy, wonder, and excitement to the cold and weird California winter. After all, who wouldn’t want to prolong opening gifts and baking cookies?
The early birds point out that the Christmas season is about more than just the day itself. It’s about the build-up, the anticipation, and the general feeling of goodwill that seems to permeate the air. They argue that in our fast-paced world, we need more time to slow down, appreciate the little things, and connect with loved ones. Starting the celebrations early, they say, gives us more opportunity to do just that. Even the stores seem to skip over Thanksgiving with Christmas trees and sleds already on sale.
Some people just want something to look forward to. Studies have shown that putting up Christmas decorations can indeed boost mood and reduce stress. Can’t we all use an extra dose of happiness?
On the other hand, Thanksgiving enthusiasts insist that each holiday deserves its moment in the spotlight. They fear that the premature arrival of Christmas threatens to overshadow the importance of gratitude and family gatherings that Thanksgiving represents. There’s also concern that starting the Christmas season too early leads to holiday burnout, diminishing the special nature of December’s celebrations.
They argue that by rushing into Christmas, we’re missing out on the transition to fall and all things pumpkin. “Whatever happened to savoring the moment?” they ask, as they watch their neighbors putting up festive lights the day after handing out candy.
But perhaps there’s a middle ground to this. While it might be excessive to put up a Christmas tree before Halloween, is there really harm in enjoying some subtle holiday cheer as November progresses? A few lights here, a wreath there, and the occasional Christmas tune might just be the perfect way to ease into the season without going full Santa Claus.
Ultimately, the decision of when to start celebrating Christmas is a personal one. Whether you’re a “November 1st” decorator or a strict “day after Thanksgiving” traditionalist, the most important thing is to find joy in the season – whenever you choose to start it.
In the end, perhaps the real spirit of the season is to put aside some time to relax and spend time with loved ones. That’s all anybody wants. Just remember to save some holiday cheer for December, and don’t forget the turkey on Thanksgiving Day.
